Marriages last because two people make a choice to keep it , to fight for it , to work for it.There is no challenge strong enough to destory your marriage as long as you both are willing to stop fighting against each other and start fighting for each other . All Relationship have one law , never make the one you love feel alone , especially when you're there. The goal is to have a Christ centered marriage that brings glory to God through the way we love and through the way we live we must be servants of grace who give more , than were given and forgive before we're forgiven. Two simply questions to ask every day to keep your marriage strong  1# what can I do for you today ? 2# how can I pray for you ?   Marriage is not a contest never keep score . God has put the two of you together on the same team to win!        Daily routine every morning 30 second kiss , 30 minute talk ,3 minute prayer lifting each other up      = Closer couple ! Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do." 1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven." - Luke 6:37 But I found him whom my soul loveth: I held him, and would not let him go ... " - Song of Solomon 3:4 "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."mark 10:9 Be completely humble and gentle; Be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace." - Ephesians 4:2-3