I cannot express the importance of placing hedges around your marriage make it your goal to create a marriage that feels like it's the safest place on Earth. You want something to last forever, you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. You never abuse it.  in marriage there's no such thing as one winning and one losing. Either Both will win or both will lose.  fight for your marriage like it's under attack from the powers of hell. Because it is. The Enemy wants to destroy marriages by any means necessary. The enemy knows marriage is vulnerable. because it is the intimate union between two sinners. Protect your marriage keep boundaries with the opposite sex. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.  Every healthy relationship is built on a foundation of honesty and trust.  don't compare the outside of someone's else relationship with the  inside of yours. comparison is the thief of joy. Fire proof yours .Sadly hedges is something we don't spend much time thinking  about. Bills  yes , kids yes , work yes, hedges no.  Hedges might not be something your property needs.but it's what your marriage needs.When we talk about building a hedge in your marriage, we're actually talking about constructing a mutually protective investment would allow your marriage to flourish like never before. The need for accountability doesn't end with marriage , rather it greatens. Neither of you are immune to temptation. talk to your spouse to let them know how important it is to put hedges around your marriage. Tell  your spouse about your desires to protect the marriage. Most important keep praying together as one.