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In marriage disagreements are inevitable but disrepect is optional. A man's need for respect is every bit as strong as his need for sex. Even those moments When he doesn't deserve it still give it and you'll be affirming him. ironically your husband usually needs your respect the most when he doesn't deserves it Secondly the need for reflection. men need time to think and process. unplug and decompress so give your spouse some Uninterrupted time to reflect and decompress. Third the need for sex most men sex drives are not as strong as the wives. But sexual fulfillment and frequency are number one and number two need in a marriage. So make frequency a priority. Fourth the need to feel productive. Affirm your husbands work inside and outside of the home and look for ways to encourage and support his endeavors. .fifth the need to be heroic.  Every little boy wants to grow up and be a superhero and grown men still hold those same desires to be strong and heroic regardless of how much we can bench press or the size of our love handles we want to feel like powerful protectors of our families. a wife words and actions have the power to make a husband feel like a hero.Build him up and help him become the best version of himself.      Are you respecting and honoring your husband ?