1 Thessalonians 5:11 

Encourage one another & Build each other up. You and your spouse are a team enjoy your togetherness don't waste it on useless fights and arguements. You never know whether you will see each other alive when you wake up the next day. The time you have with each other is very very pericous. Enjoy your togetherness. Now you will feel no rain , for each will be a shelter for the other , now you will feel no cold , for each will be  warmth to the other. Now there will be no loneiness , for each will be a companion to the other.  Now you are two persons , but there is one life before you. Teamwork makes the marriage work. The goal in marriage is not to think alike , but to think together. Marriage is not 50/50.divorce is 50/50 marriage has to be 100/ 100. it isn't dividing everything in half.But giving everything you got.Teamwork sits alongside of trust,communication and tolerance as a building block. Teamwork is not what I can get out of this relationship.  It's what can i bring to this relationship to make it better.  Teamwork is a combine commitment to overcome obstacles. It's supports, it's encouragement , it's working together. ITS YOU AND ME - VS - THE PROBLEM . NOT YOU  - VS -  ME    

 WE'RE A TEAM END OF STORY.  Are you and your spouse on the same team ? Or playing against each other ?