John 15:5

I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

As a couple you need to stay connected to other godly couples , Christian community , and the word of God.  Attend marriage seminars , getaways and couples retreats. It's important to do daily devotions together and important to spend quality time alone or together studying God's word. Staying connected as a family covering one another through prayer.  Father ,  protect our marriage Preserve and strengthen our commitment to you and each other. Physical attractions are common , but a mental connection is rare. Spiritual breathing teaches us all that we are connected in love. A person can meet you only as Deeply as they have met themselves. Side by side or miles apart you and your spouse are connected heart to heart. Let your spouse be your  Wi-Fi.