A very miss understood word in a marriage. That has caused conflict within a marriage. A power struggle begins. Gentlemen Let's get one thing clear submission is not about Authority and it's not about obedience. it is all about relationships of love and respect. If dominance is an act of setting someone free , and submission is an act of willfully devoting oneself to another , then who is the captor and who is the captive ? A leash after all has two ends , both of which must be held. Ultimately , dominance and submissive are bound to one another not by chains but by their own needs , and the mutual fulfillment of those needs , we  do for one another what no one else can or will. we are here by choice and by choice we stay. No woman wants to be in submission to a man who isn't in submission to God. True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself. Authority is not the problem , our stubborn hearts are  the problem. Successful marriages are based on God's principles man love your wife, woman submit to your husband. Biblical submission is not yielding to your husband's will. It's embracing the order Christ established and submitting to him. Submission is an attitude of the heart, a daily journey of faith where you choose to see Jesus in your marriage , not just a leadership style from your husband. be a man worth submitting to. A wise husband values his wife's input.